Dante once said that the hottest places in hell are reserved for those
who in a period of moral crisis maintain their neutrality.
-- John F. Kennedy

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Family Gatherings


















We just came back from a big family event. Today was Warden Williams' 80th Birthday Celebration (his b-day was actually June 1, but the party was delayed). My mom, Lynn Younger and Warden have been living together for more than 27 years. My mom always hoped they would marry, but Warden just wasn't interested in marrying again (he had two previous marriages). And we told my mom to not worry about it, since she had already been married three times and this live-in relationship was the best she has ever had. Why ruin a good thing.

Anyway, Warden is a great guy, a true gentleman, with tremendous character and he has touched many lives over the years as a teacher, father, friend and more. So my mom organized this big party and many family members and friends flew in from Tennessee and California, to celebrate with us. There were many heartfelt speeches and testimonials praising the guest of honor. And then Warden took the microphone and after thanking everyone and sharing some of his thoughts, he dropped a bombshell on us.

Turns out Warden and my mom got married in Mesa on May 1.

Shocked and pleased everyone. Tears all around. Wow!!!

I never thought my mom could keep a secret, but she did this time.

Congratulations to Warden and Lynn Williams. May you have many more happy years together.


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Thursday, June 25, 2009

Amazing

God, I love this.

Damn.

UPDATE
Here is the original Motown 25 performance for comparison.


And this from Andrew Sullivan is spot on:

There are two things to say about him. He was a musical genius; and he was an abused child. By abuse, I do not mean sexual abuse; I mean he was used brutally and callously for money, and clearly imprisoned by a tyrannical father. He had no real childhood and spent much of his later life struggling to get one. He was spiritually and psychologically raped at a very early age - and never recovered. Watching him change his race, his age, and almost his gender, you saw a tortured soul seeking what the rest of us take for granted: a normal life.

But he had no compass to find one; no real friends to support and advise him; and money and fame imprisoned him in the delusions of narcissism and self-indulgence. Of course, he bears responsibility for his bizarre life. But the damage done to him by his own family and then by all those motivated more by money and power than by faith and love was irreparable in the end. He died a while ago. He remained for so long a walking human shell.

I loved his music. His young voice was almost a miracle, his poise in retrospect eery, his joy, tempered by pain, often unbearably uplifting. He made the greatest music video of all time; and he made some of the greatest records of all time. He was everything our culture worships; and yet he was obviously desperately unhappy, tortured, afraid and alone.

I grieve for him; but I also grieve for the culture that created and destroyed him. That culture is ours' and it is a lethal and brutal one: with fame and celebrity as its core values, with money as its sole motive, it chewed this child up and spat him out.

I hope he has the peace now he never had in his life. And I pray that such genius will not be so abused again.


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The King of Pop

Weird. Yes. Strange. Yes. Self-Indulgent. Yes. Creepy. Yes. Sad. Terribly.

But never forget the music, the performances, and the groundbreaking videos. Michael Jackson was the musical powerhouse of my generation.

My sister and I used to play Jackson 5 45s over and over and sing them together. I loved all of his early solo albums, and saw Michael and his brothers in concert once. I'll always love his music. And I still get a thrill watching his videos.

My wife and stepchildren don't get what all the fuss is about today. But I am mourning him and appreciating what his music and personality meant to me.

Here are my Top 12 (couldn't stop at 10) Michael Jackson songs (post Jackson 5 but including the Jacksons):
1. Don't Stop 'Til You Get Enough
2. Billie Jean
3. Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'
4. Shake Your Body (Down to the Ground)
5. Can You Feel It (The Jacksons)
6. Do You Remember the Time
7. The Way You Make Me Feel
8. This Place Hotel (The Jacksons)
9. Rock with You
10. Human Nature
11. Smooth Criminal
12. Scream (with Janet Jackson ... and the most expensive video ever made)
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Lets's dance ... Let's shout

Lets's dance ... Let's shout ... Shake your body down to the ground ...

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Thou shalt not ...

Republicans are hypocrites:

From WashingtonMonthly via BalloonJuice:

And Another for the Family Values File
by John Cole
I knew Sen. Ensign was a hypocrite, but it wasn’t until I was got through this exhaustive list at Benen’s joint that I realized how much of a hypocrite he is:
"When Bill Clinton’s adultery came to public light, Ensign not only voted to remove the president from office, but insisted the president should resign as a result of the personal scandal. When former Sen. Larry Craig was caught up in a sex scandal, Ensign not only called for Craig’s ouster, but led the charge against him.
Ensign has also been a fierce opponent of marriage equality, and supported a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage. In 2004, the Nevada Republican lectured his colleagues, “Marriage is the cornerstone on which our society was founded. For those who say that the Constitution is so sacred that we cannot or should not adopt the Federal Marriage Amendment, I would simply point out that marriage, and the sanctity of that institution, predates the American Constitution and the founding of our nation.”
And did I mention that Ensign is a longtime member of the Promise Keepers, a conservative evangelical group that promotes strong families and marriages?
This shit never surprises.
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Tweets for Dummies

Republican Congressmen are idiots:
From Josh Marshall
The Hoekstra Pile On Continues
Yesterday, you'll remember, clinically unselfaware Rep. Pete Hoekstra (R-MI) tweeted that the struggle of Iranian reformists was similar to the oppression faced by House Republicans when Nancy Pelosi won't let them bring enough amendments to the floor. That tweet triggered a wave of tweet heckling, as others mocked Hoekstra's unique mix of grandiosity and cluelessness. Eric Kleefeld rounded up some of the best of these counter-tweets in a post at TPMDC.
But I hadn't realized until just now that folks were keeping up the ridicule in the comments section of the post.
This one was funny: "My mom made me carry the trash out to the alley. Now I know what the Bataan Death March was like."
It's almost developing into a niche Hoekstra-mocking art form. Kind of like a Haiku.
This one, this one and this one were pretty good too.

Let me try one:
"I just got stopped on the street for directions. Now I know what the Spanish Inquisition was like."
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Tuesday, June 16, 2009

The magic dog ...

Talk about a horrible travesty of justice ... via BalloonJuice:

Canine Justice by John Cole

This sounds like something out of a bad movie, but apparently a load of people in Florida were convicted of crimes and jailed for years on end based on the supernatural powers of a dog and its handler. You know where this is going, don’t you? It was a load of nonsense, and now many of the men are being released three decades later after DNA tests clear them.

You have got to read this.




Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Hate and Ingnorance

Shine the light on them ... and watch them scurry ...

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Monday, June 1, 2009

What a wonderful world ...

I love unbridled creativity! We need more joy in our lives. This helps.


And what a genius Dick Van Dyke was and is. Fun.
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Project Runway ...

The island of St. Barthelemy in the Caribbean is near the top of the list for my favorite places visited. While on a Windjammer Cruise on the Fantome in 1994 I visited the island with my friends Andy and Karen. I'm sure that everyone who visits St. Barts remembers the airport. It is listed as one of the most dangerous airports in the world because of the tricky approach that challenges even the most experience pilots. We were told there were more than a few taxi cabs on the island that had airplane tire tracks on their roofs, since the main road crosses with the aircraft approach at the top of a hill. See what I mean here:
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Sunday, May 31, 2009

On Venice Beach watching a

On Venice Beach watching a young longhaired Jesus-like guy on a skateboard with a staff who's bartering to buy things with pretty stones

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Just for fun ...

This is just wild ...

17 years old ... cool.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

I brought Hannah to ASU

I brought Hannah to ASU graduation ... we made it through security and the big crowd ... so hot! Waiting on Obama.

Monday, May 11, 2009

Spending a hot morning waiting

Spending a hot morning waiting around at Rawhide for a video shoot with a clown and a prima dona director... life is good!

Monday, April 27, 2009

Must Reads

Check out these smart posts about the politics of torture:

The Case for More Waterboarding by Matthew Yglesias
and
Some Behavior Is Beyond The Legal System by Digby

But this story is amazing, and I hope we hear more from FBI Agent Ali Soufan.
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Cat Fun


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Monday, April 20, 2009

And don't get me started on hemp farming ...

I beleive it is long past time for our nation to take a realistic and thoughtful look at our drug laws. Here is an interesting article from a former Seattel Police Chief Norm Stamper,

"...with April 20 approaching and Waldos of the world gearing up to celebrate their favorite day of the year, it's not a bad time to consider, yet again, the pluses and minuses of alcohol vs. cannabis.

First, a disclaimer: I am a member of Law Enforcement Against Prohibition, but I don't officially represent the organization in this forum. ... We at LEAP are current and former cops and other criminal justice practitioners who have witnessed firsthand the futility and manifold injustices of the drug war. Our professional experiences have led us to conclude that the more dangerous an illicit substance--from crack to krank--the greater the justification for its legalization, regulation, and control. It is the prohibition of drugs that leads inexorably to high rates of death, disease, crime, and addiction.

Back to booze vs. pot. How do the effects of these two drugs stack up against specific health and public safety factors?

Alcohol-related traffic accidents claim approximately 14,000 lives each year, down significantly from 20 or 30 years ago (attributed to improved education and enforcement). ... evidence from studies, including laboratory simulations, feeds the stereotype that those under the influence of canniboids tend to (1) be more aware of their impaired psychomotor skills, and (2) drive well below the speed limit. Those under the influence of alcohol are much more likely to be clueless or defiant about their condition, and to speed up and drive recklessly.

Hundreds of alcohol overdose deaths occur annually. There has never been a single recorded marijuana OD fatality.

According to the American Public Health Association, excessive alcohol consumption is the third leading cause of death in this country. APHA pegs the negative economic impact of extreme drinking at $150 billion a year.

There have been no documented cases of lung cancer in a marijuana-only smoker, nor has pot been scientifically linked to any type of cancer. ... Alcohol abuse contributes to a multitude of long-term negative health consequences, notably cirrhosis of the liver and a variety of cancers.

... alcohol is one of the worst drugs one can take for pain management, marijuana one of the best.

Alcohol contributes to acts of violence; marijuana reduces aggression. In approximately three million cases of reported violent crimes last year, the offender had been drinking. This is particularly true in cases of domestic violence, sexual assault, and date rape. Marijuana use, in and of itself, is absent from both crime reports and the scientific literature. There is simply no link to be made.

Over the past four years I've asked police officers throughout the U.S. (and in Canada) two questions. When's the last time you had to fight someone under the influence of marijuana? (I'm talking marijuana only, not pot plus a six-pack or a fifth of tequila.) My colleagues pause, they reflect. Their eyes widen as they realize that in their five or fifteen or thirty years on the job they have never had to fight a marijuana user. I then ask: When's the last time you had to fight a drunk? They look at their watches.

All of which begs the question. If one of these two drugs is implicated in dire health effects, high mortality rates, and physical violence--and the other is not--what are we to make of our nation's marijuana laws? Or alcohol laws, for that matter.

Anybody out there want to launch a campaign for the re-prohibition of alcohol? Didn't think so. The answer, of course, is responsible drinking. Marijuana smokers, for their part, have already shown (apart from that little matter known as the law) greater responsibility in their choice of drugs than those of us who choose alcohol."


Perhaps widespread legalization isn't the answer, but decriminalization of the personal use of marijuana is feasible. The public opinion is slowly shifting that way, too.
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